After a few email exchanges with my L, I feel much better. This custody evaluation might not be a bad thing. Here is part of an email from my L:
I know that the evaluation process is expensive. However, one aspect is psychological testing of you and your X, interviews with everyone involved, including your mother and the children's teachers. Interviews with you and the children, X and the children, the children alone, you alone, X alone. Then that person makes a decision based on the psychological profile of everyone involved from the testing, and the information gathered in the interviews and review of all of the Declarations filed with the Court, as to what is in the children's best interest.
I know for a fact that I have always had the best interest of our children in mind.
It would be interesting to me to have my X evaluated to see what is going on with her.
Time to get off the canvas and get my head back into this thing. I see some hope. I am going to think about it over the weekend.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa