H has been away for a business trip to OW's home country (although OW is not there, she is here in the US)since last Thursday PM. He emailed and texted a few times, and we only spoke 2x so far.

I did my 180's - I normally don't cook and decided that this week I will do so, and provide D12 with fresh hot meals! I made sure H knows I did so when we spoke.

I also did not call, or initiate texts except when needed logistically. No How are u doing kind of thing.

But when he did text, I replied very cordially and kindly.

Surprise for me: He texted me this AM asking my sweater size. Apparently he is buying me something! Thats new as he is not a gift giver!

That made my day......


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go