You will find that by you taking the lead, pushing for the D as fast as possible and withdrawing ALL support will make her head spin. She will be angry (guaranteed!!!)
And then you should go out of your way to enjoy the FRIENDLY company of women. Be seen with them. Let the message go out that you are on the market.
If the combined effect of the financial drama and fear of having lost you for good does not turn her around nothing will. (That should take anything from 4 to 8 weeks for "reality" to set in.)
IF she decides to come back and expresses the desire to. YOUR RESPONSIBILITY is to tell her, "I need to think about that because I'm not sure if I want that." <<< and that is all you say. Nothing more. You let her WORK her way back in. She has not done an honest day's work on your R. It is your duty to allow her to do the work, just like you have.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
