Accusations and partner assuming she knows things without knowing them (psychically?) are the worst. It hurts and angers me so much when W does that to me.
For me, this is part of the classic irony - when I get angry *I* make accusations and ascribe feelings/motivations to W (although I haven't accused her of actual action, like an A).
Probably, in some twisted, backhanded way, the fact that I do it (or have done it a LOT) is the reason why being on the receiving end hurts so much.
Any of this dynamic going on with YOU? (I am afraid I haven't had the chance to read your history yet, so pardon if I am asking something that is somehow obvious).
Think about it...if you met a potential mate who was nothing but a bundle of needs, would YOU be attracted to them?
