Thanks for your reply, Jack.

Under the assumption that you are still married and if you don’t mind me asking, how long did your W MLC last? Did she regret allot of her actions? Did you believe in your heart that it was over and there was no chance? Finally, how difficult was it to piece the marriage back together?

Oh, on a recent development… My wife had told me several times within the last 9 months, to move on, forget her and find another woman. Well, this weekend, she found out that I went out on a date. Actually, it was a group outing. She texted me and told me “ oh btw, say hi to your new girlfriend for me”. (She’s NOT a girlfriend. It was just a date). I then replied telling her “Did you not tell me to move on with my life and find another woman?” Her reply was “ I NEVER said that”.
Well, after I sent her the text that she wrote stating this, she replied “ The reason I told you to move on with your life, was for you to get your life in order and NOT with another woman”. WTH!

Man, my head is STILL spinning from that one!


Me: 37
W: 37
Married Feb 14 1997
Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010
No divorce filed yet
1st born son:13
2nd daughter:9
3rd son:4
Trying hard to detach