Originally Posted By: Telemark
Stand still and let your W close the distance. May not happen this week, this month, or even this year. May not happen at all. But as long as our WAS's feel like they are being chased they will continue to run.
Great points Telemark. I guess my struggle right now is she seems to be the one reaching out to me more but then I take it a step further than I should.

I'm very curious as to how she's going to respond when she gets home...because she's going to walk in and just about everything that says me will be gone...my half of the closet...my drawers emptied...my half of the bathroom, etc. My guess is she'll say it feels like a "weight" is lifted off her shoulders...whether she says that to me or not I don't know but she's said that to me in the past with regards to when I left the house at the early stages of this to give her some space. Really when she says that I just think it is easier for her to ignore her actions. The guilt is probably not as thick when she doesn't have to see anything that reminds her of me. Still unsure about how to approach the bills thing yet either or if I should even worry about it right away.


mid 20s
Tgther 7 yrs
W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11
W filed 05/11/11
I moved out 08/05/11
Mediation mid Oct 11
D final Dec 11
Now what? ...2012