Good for you broken, it is good to see you looking beyond your pain...which in comparrison? I'd rather be an LBS several times over than be an MLCer once.
All I know is what my wife told me, and what my aunt told me about being in their MLC..and I cannot fathom the paralyzing confusion or pain.
As for threads from former MLC's
If you can find a poster by the name of Happyincognito he had one. A good guy who struggled very hard. He is a bit blunt and very direct.
I believe there were serveral others...
The only problem is like LBS's and what works and doesn't for each as individuals? The MLC template can fit, but each is still unique.
To sum them up and say this is my wife? Not a good idea. Pain and confusion.
Think about it, your wife was a good person right? Any good person is going to suffer when they make choices that conflict with their moral code. Things they would never do, I get the feeling that deep down? They almost despise themselves at times. But that is my personal take.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
