I've vented in newcomers but post this here for future reference.
A friend just let me know that my W has been telling people that I had an A with this friend about four or five years ago...
It puts my D8's question this weekend into a better perspective, as her Q seemed odd... my D8 asked if I liked this friend and if I would ever marry her... I simply said that we were friends and I would not marry her and besides, I am M and my friend is M, which seemed to satisfy her Q...
Anyhow...
I choose to let this go... it has no value nor will any action around this have any value to being helpful to my sitch... at least not at this time... at least that how it appears, to me...
It may take some time to really get over this, but as I said, I choose to let it go...