Interesting thing happened night before last. My sons buddy came over to spend the night so she agreed we would sleep n the same bed to keep his buddy from knowing anything. We went to bed and after some chit chat myW kinda shut down and got that look on her face, like I dont want u here. So I got my pillow and went in the LR to sleep. Tried to hide in my sons tent he had set up in there to play in so if his buddy came through he wouldn't see me. Well that just didn't work, it was hot and the floor was hard. So after about a half hour I went back in the bedroom and told her if she was uncomfortable with this she could go in there and I was gonna sleep in our bed. She said she didn't mean to make me feel that she was uncomfortable and she was sorry. Not only that, after I got back in bed we laughed about something the boys did and talked to each other like things were ok, and then went to sleep. I've been somewhat of a doormat since this started, wondering if I did a 180 and didn't realise it. It's hard to get respect when your a doormat so I wonder if it's a 180 to kinda stand up for myself, in a very calm nice way of course, and show some confidence. Ya never know but it seemed to get a positive reaction. What do you guys think????
