Thanks Eric, the way things are, I can't plan past today. It's one day at a time. I've already had to get an extention on my closing once, may have to twice. Then there is actually MOVING!!! What's going on the last week of August?
Punkin, Good Luck on your move. I know how terrible it is to have these things get held up. But soon enough you will get settled in and feel great. Just keep swimming!!!!! Oh and had to laugh about the Poo comment - your histerical! TIPPER
JUST WHEN YOU THOUGHT IT WAS SAFE TO GO BACK ON THE INTERNET!!!!
Yes, friends and neighbors, I'm Baacckk!
Moved into my new house and have my wireless internet all set up. Had some moving snafu's ( imagine ) but nothing I can't withstand. (Lightening hit the air conditioner ane burnt up the motherboard, gas leak that could have killed me). More later. Daughter has to use my computer.
GLAD TO BE BACK!!!
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
I've missed talking to you all so much!! I have my new house pretty well set up, but still have a butt-load of things at the old house to decide what to do with. I have 3 months for the house to stay on the market before there can be an auction ordered, during which time XH has to pay the payments. It's so HOT here, I can't bear to go out there. Plus, I've pretty much began to hate going out there.
Haven't heard a word from XH since our lawyer's pissing match over the settlement. I've went out of my way to be pleasant to him in emails, but he isn't having any of it. I let him come and take a bunch of stuff, stuff I didn't have to, and he gripped about the filet knife I forgot to throw in. What a jerk!
It's going to take me a month at least just to catch up with everyone, so if you have the time, drop me a synopsis of your last month or so on my site, so I can catch up the lazy way.
Life goes on, and so have I. Now I have to get my ducks in a row to make sure I receive everything through the Army that i am entitled to. XH, otherwise known as shotz for brains, doesn't seem to have any idea of the things that are open to me at his expense.
Anything earch shaking that I've missed with anyone???
Punkin, I was thinking about you a couple of days ago and hoping you were OK. So glad you are back, although a bit of me thought, "has she met the man of her dreams and gone off round the world on a whim?'
As to xh's meanness. Well my therapist friend says these people know they have made a horrible mistake, and they are angry with us as the architect of all that is wrong in their lives. Yes, it isn't rational, but because we are so much in their thoughts they dump it all onto us The knife incident is typical. He 'needs' to feel angry at something or someone, and the smallest thing gives him the 'excuse' to project it. Also they cannot admit they were wrong about anything so they spend their lives constructing reasons why it was right to leave us. I mean gosh, Punkin, you should have Known about that knife, if you had been a half way OK person
Don't forget to check out Brook's cyber party The mermaid costume is already taken,and not by me.
