And really... if she wants to think you're working against the D... what would she expect... that you're going to jump up and down for it...? She knows how you feel...
Your only other option, and I DO NOT recommend this NOR encourage it... just putting it out there... just as food for thought...
What if YOU were suddenly in a rush to D? What do you think your W might think or do if suddenly, you not only responded VERY QUICKLY to requests, but went further and asked her to hurry up the process as you want D final as soon as possible... perhaps by a specific date...
That is said strictly for... entertainment purposes... allow yourself to consider her perspective... once she's D... what's her plan? Maybe she THINKS she has a plan, but once she gets her "win"... she might be VERY lost because her purpose in life right now is to D so once she has that in hand... ????
I talked to my lawyer friend again tonight and relayed the information about last nights re-bombing.
He again suggested that I file, and that this would force her to confront some reality. He believes that she's enjoying a lot of liberty at the moment, and has me in puppet mode. He's willing to file on my behalf. He's said that he's had a number of filings that resulted in the two parties reconciling as a filing really makes people take a look at what comes next.
I'm intrigued by this opportunity. This would be a clear message that I'm ready to move on. This would require a commitment on my part. I'm of course struggling as to whether I can really buy into this.
Me: 45 W: 45 S: 12 D: 9 M: 16 T:22
Bomb: 4/20/2011 Says she moves out in July with Kids Discovered Affair: 6/10/2011 She files for divorce: 8/18/2011
