Thanks, DG! It's nice to be making progress in one area of my life.
I've started exercising every single day - trying to find the right mix of stuff, but I did 40 minutes on the treadmill yesterday, and today I did 20 minutes on the treadmill and then crunches/push ups/squats. Trying to get to 100 of each every other day. Right now I can only do 100 crunches, 25 pushups, and 10 squats.
Clearly I need some work, but it feels empowering. There's only a tiny bit of that's motivated by the "get hot and show him what he's missing" urge.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11