Crap. I know I shouldn't snoop but I did. There's at least an EA going on. Secret email address and way to many visits to an old BF's FB page. I knew she was protecting her laptop way too much.
Since I've never really considered this situation I don't know what to do right now. Breathe and no drastic moves I guess. Have to play it cool for the next few hours til work is out and she leaves.
Feels horrible to find out I cannot trust my wife. This changes everything
