Why did she have this positive upswing in our interactions over the last couple days before reestablishing the bomb last night?
I doubt any H can understand a WAW! You will save yourself a truck load of grief if you'll just accept the fact that you will not understand what causes her wide mood swings when wanting a D from you. And, I can promise you that you have only started to see what will be many mood swings to come.
I'm not trying to oppose what others tell you, but I think men set themselves up for disappointment when they take one little word that's said or one day of her not acting like a bi!ch as a positive step. Just b/c everything happens to go her way one day and she isn't acting crazy...does not mean that things are in an UPWARD SWING! The woman wants a D!
Even if she were WILLING to work on the M, it would take weeks, or maybe even months, of hard work (from her) before it would truly be a positive step.
So, you can make up your mind to expect her to be nice once in a while.....but realize that it doesn't mean she's wanting to R the M. She could be setting you up for something else entirely, but who knows.
Just as one word or one mood swing doesn't spell out the worst, neither does it spell out the best.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
