My GALing and His Bailing Part 5

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Oh an addendum to #3. When you figure out where that kick to your self esteem landed, THEN ask yourself IS it TRUE? Is that perspective based in reality?

Example: Many women believe that their only value is sexual.
Is it true? Granted, through the filters of their upbringing from their experiences with parents to society they may well legitmately have believed that YES it's absolutely true. Their only value lies in what they can do to please sexually.

That you and I know is not True or based in reality. That a person has many talents and an intrinsic worth that transcends this. They have to learn to see it too. So do you Lila/