I do at times because many of the methods call for me doing the opposite of what is intuitive or even what I feel like my faith would have me do.
mgm, DB’ing can be counterintuitive, regardless of ones faith. This is particularly true at the beginning. Our emotions tell us to do one thing, and DB, through our mind, is telling us to do something else.
Many of us listen to our emotions from time to time at the beginning, get burned, and then after time, realize we don’t like getting burned.
There is a line here “Believe none of what they say and 50% of what they do.”
The WAW’s words will be confusing, and often give you mixed signals. However, their actions are often much clearer if you look at them for what they are.
Right now, your W is divorcing you and carrying on a R with OM. Those are her actions, and they are pretty clear right now. Her actions say “I do not want to be married to you NOW.”
So, if you recognize this, you might be able to see that the advice given is actually RESPECTING what she is telling you. I would have to think, this, would be in line with your faith.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
