AND... there is only one time that your D is done... that's when the paperwork gets the final stamp by the courts...
until then, either one of you can prevent that...
remember... your W could... maybe... change her mind...
no guarantee... but are YOU going to be the one to nail the coffin shut?
Or you going to be you... the person she loved enough to marry in the first place... and be a BETTER YOU... someone she will forever wonder what life with you might have been like... if she chooses D...
