So on the 'passive aggressive' thing and 'not asking'. I am reading 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' and it's a revelation. As a 'Nice Guy' I see my patterns of never being able to divulge my needs clearly, so it won't put me in a situation to be disappointed, but then when my 'unspoken contract' is not fulfilled I become resentful.

There's likely some awareness/insight you might gain from checking out that book.


Me-44, W-38
S12, D10
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EA: 3/20/11
Bomb: 3/25/11
"I'm waiting til June to 'do something'" statement from W: 4/26/11
Still in same house, in same bed