Bill, Thank you.....Sorry it has taken so long for me to respond. I have been very busy. DOing not showing...Yes I still let the better of my anxiety get to me but do my best to hide that. I have been in the process of switching jobs (well hopefully). If I get the new it will pay much more and relieve a lot of financial stress. Which is always a good thing. I have successfully dodged any desire of R talks for weeks now. My wife is very excited at the possiblity of a new job. Even told me that she is closer to wanting to fix things , although she did say she wouldnt put money on it in Vegas just yet. I did not bring this up and quickly changed the subject. Thanks....