I'm also not the one to give advice right now (I did a couple of times when I had just started, but not such a great idea). Once I have had some success, or feel more competent, maybe...
Mostly, I post here as a way of journaling. The comments I get from others are wonderful input, and they also motivate me not to go too long without putting in. Paper journal never did that for me.
Think about it...if you met a potential mate who was nothing but a bundle of needs, would YOU be attracted to them?
