Let's forget any idea of an A... It really makes no difference..
What angers me is your W continually telling half truths and/or lying about OM over and over... And she blames YOU...
And she continues to talk/email/see him... It's disrespectful... And NO ONE deserves being treated that way...
My problem is I put myself in your shoes and imagine your pain.. I even feel it to some degree.
But I believe you're right Denver.
My advice and my way of thinking will never fit you or your sitch.
So I will respectfully and with 100% sincerity sit on the sidelines and watch...
And pray for you.
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012