I would think NOT asking...at least for a while. ALTHOUGH - if it is a good 180, maybe so. Again - I'm in the same boat, so I'm likely not the best advisor - I don't trust my own opinion at this point, wouldn't want you to try my advice!
Me-44, W-38 S12, D10 --- EA: 3/20/11 Bomb: 3/25/11 "I'm waiting til June to 'do something'" statement from W: 4/26/11 Still in same house, in same bed
