But I DO understand your position, it is no different than anyone else's...
I can understand why my statement 'move on' upset you. Your W has been saying it for 8 months and you just won't. You just didn't.
You have come to the DB board but you don't DB... I truly believe that had you DB'ed for any length of time you and your W would be in a better place, and still could be. But I understand you don't need my opinion.
Boundaries are not my 'philosophy'. They are part of DB.
Anyway, it appears your way is working for you.
Good luck...
SBH Out...
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012