"this is why some of us believe so strongly that the time for boundaries is EARLY, not later on"
Adultery is wrong...
And in our pain...
Our desire to keep our S...
We are too ready to overlook the lies...
The cheating...
The ultimate disrespect...
Forgive without accountability or consequence...
And we allow them to place ALL the blame on us...
Sorry, doesn't work that way!
Boundaries First... M second!
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012