I get it now Jack, and you are right. I appreciate you pointing that out, and I've not said anything to him about it and I won't. I see what I did, not dwelling but learning
Yes soccerwife, the tit for tat thing is very exhausting. I suppose we need to not worry about it because GAL is for us.
You are definitely in the right place, I am learning a lot from reading the links above. Great place to start. Sorry you are here, but welcome!