My H is doing something very similar to when you say that your H tries to make things equal? after you GAL. My H will go away for an entire weekend and then when the next weekend comes along and I make plans for myself, he throws a fit because I would like to go do something two nights in a row. It is so incredibly skewed in his direction it is just insanity. Each day I lean more and more towards the thinking that my H is MLC. I just started reading the posts in MLC so I don't how to approach this whole thing yet, but I am guessing we have to just work on ourselves and hope it ends?
Me: 32/ H: 32/ S13/ D5 T: 15/ M: 8 Rock bottom: 4/11 ILYB: 5/11, but I knew it at least a yr before Gaining acceptance: 8/11
You must be the change you wish to see. - Mahatma Gandhi
