After finding out about your H's first A, did you both ever seek C in any form?

If you don't sort out the root problem, how will you stop this pattern repeating itself?

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength