I had been 'following my wife around like a puppy dog' to some extent. Stopping that.
Thanks for the comment on Yet = Hope. Although I thought having a sense of hope was good. It's the expectations that are bad, right?
I'm also getting SO tired of being the first one to say something in the morning. I'm always saying 'Good morning' first and you know, I'm getting tired of always trying to be bright and cheery and getting nothing back. I guess that's just 'par for the course' with where things are right now (and #13 from the list on always being bright and cheerful! But then #15 references 'If you're always the one that starts a conversation....it's not a conversation, but I ALWAYS initiate the 'morning greeting').
Me-44, W-38 S12, D10 --- EA: 3/20/11 Bomb: 3/25/11 "I'm waiting til June to 'do something'" statement from W: 4/26/11 Still in same house, in same bed