Can a marriage survive two affairs?

[luvmyhubby]

Must,
I dont know a ton about making it work, I just know what I have done. I think no matter what you are hurt especially since this is not the first time. Im sure you are angry as you have every right to be...

When you discovered his previous A what happened?
Did he behave the same way when you found out?
Did you go to any counseling or make any effort together or alone to heal your marriage?

I would expect that if something doesnt change about you and him that it would happen again.
Obviously this is a very painful time for you, your kids and even your H. For now the best thing you can do while you figure it out is focus on your kids. Make sure you help yourself but help them too because they can feel it. They know even if you dont tell them what is going on around them.