And the beat goes on...

[jbnati]

At what point did I lose control here?

I think at the point the thread hijackers started coming

SS21 has been a real handful; I'm sure he senses a disturbance in The Force and will not adapt well to this change.

This is really the sad part in all this. SS21 is paying a mighty big price here.

I have been patient and understanding. I will not help her move, but I did tell her she could get her things out at her own pace. I do not want to see her in pain or miserable.

I know this is tough, man. My prayers and thoughts are with you. You have to do what's right for you. It sounds like it's a good thing you will be in upstate NY this weekend.