I just found out my husband had been having an affair with a co worker for 8 months. It is over becasue her husband caught them texting intimate info and threthend to take her son but that is the only reason. My husband said they loved each other. He never wanted a divorce just wanted to be with her because he could not handle our fighting. This is the same reason he had an affair six years ago. He runs away from our problems. Finds someone easy to escape. Its like our problems are too pain full for him to handle. Is there hope for us? he loves me and I love him. We have two boys to think of 9 and 7.