M: Yes. I will send it to you tomorrow. Are you going to let me know your personal debts like I did for you with mine?
W: I will give it to you tomorrow after I check my student loan balance.
M: Ok.
Tad, this conversation should have ended right here with you saying something to the effect that you had to go because you had something else to do.
You asked for this convo and you got it. Just know that if it had been a different day or time the words from your W may have been different because MLCer's are emotion driven.
Your W had only one day to process what you two had talked about the day before. Why, with all you've learned, did you feel that you had to go and push it the very next day?
Lay off the R talks. They will get you no where. LET HER GO. She has to figure all this out on her own. If there was ever any chance for her to miss you it is not going to happen with you being ever present.
You keep giving her reasons to justify what she is doing. You are leaving her no room or time for doubt to creep into her fogged up mind.
Remember, you can't speed her MLC up, but you sure can slow it down. Tad, stop getting in her way.
