Hopefully you have called in about the job. Hopefully you have ASKED and showed interest in the job. Don't expect life to be handed to you J1 ever. Always follow through.
So now you're "infatuated" with a "friend". WTF J1!!! You are all over the map. Are you that co-dependent? I want your ego to succeed, but not with means of finding someone to replace YOUR co-dependency.
I'll tell you what...this is a dare.... The box idea again...Go get boxes or MORE boxes...tell your STBXW, this isn't working for you...tell her to pack up, and you will help her....and then when everything is done....kick her "literally" in the @ss out the door. Tell her best wishes. Wish her love and happiness and then go and TRY to have a relationship with this girl "you like". I want to see how far you get. Seriously. If you pull off the end, then pursue a new beginning, I'll wish you the best out of anyone here on the board.
Really see how far you get man. Really J1. Really? Not to hurt you, but I can kinda see why your W might be into someone else or trying to decide. Childish $h!t on your part! After ALL the advice that has been given to you, you still think this is a game. Good luck to you Bro, God helps those who helps themselves. However, if you hurt someone else through this and it's YOUR sin. Just sayin'
