The first question...I honestly don't know either way.
As for the second, I suppose it wouldn't. As long as I'm praying for her on my own it's not necessarily something I have to tell her. That doesn't amplify the prayer or anything I don't think.
Thanks for that thought/perspective.
mid 20s Tgther 7 yrs W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11 W filed 05/11/11 I moved out 08/05/11 Mediation mid Oct 11 D final Dec 11 Now what? ...2012