GB,

Do you feel the need to soothe her every time this happens? Maybe you can give her the space to soothe herself? Perhaps this is something she needs to learn to do?

I do find the whole local girl thing a little perplexing. Maybe I need to re-read your older threads.. but its seems like you are the one who wants to move towards monogamy?

She can't believe you love her - that is about her. Why does she think she is so unlovable? It is her issue and while I can understand your frustration, it is an issue she is going to have to come to terms with. In a real way, it is interfering with intimacy..


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.