Kaffe this was discussed with my DB counselor. I'm following his lead here. He suggested I go as dim as I can. That's what I'm doing. I'm hurting too much. Seeing him hurts, talking to him hurts, dealing with him period hurts.
I am not ok with D. If he wants he, he will do the heavy lifting. I will not help or hinder. So far he's done diddly.
The movie is planned for next week.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
