I got a call tonight from the WAW saying that she will bypass court if I sign the joint custody agreement. This will save us money. He mind is made up and if I sign tommorrow, then I will be divorced in 61 days. The state that I live in does them fast if both agree. If I contest the divorce tomorrow then it could take as long as 2 years for it be finalized because she will have to accuse me of "habitual inhuman cruel treatment" which is standard in the courts in the South. The state that I live in will not give her a divorce based on that unless there are police reports of abuse, which there are none. We argued alot but the courts don't consider that or name calling or quarreling "habitual inhumane and cruel treatment." So ultimately she could never get a divorce while living in this state.
Do I sign or what do I do?
Dog
"Someday we may look back on this and decide that Saving Private Ryan was the one decent thing we were able to pull out of this whole godawful mess."
