You are told to believe that it is a disease. So H is a victim. And you are a victim of his disease. And he can't do a damn thing about it. And neither can you. And this is supposed to be all OK. No one is to blame and no one can recover. And meetings are supposed to fix it. ????
Totally agree. Most alcoholics have at least two other addictions including the booze. They can kick the booze and then develop yet ANOTHER adiction to replace the one to alcohol.
They choose these addictions to numb out or self soothe.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
