You know I did this early on. I had the same feelings then that you are having now. I compared her. Knew deep down I had nothing to give her. It was nothing but a distraction.
And I just posted something similar.
There are positive distractions and negative ones.
Getting your mind off of your W may be a positive one.
But it will also distract from you.
I have just entered a phase of feeling happy just with me again.
I know for me, I'm just going to hold onto this for a while. It's what I need right now.
If I decide to "get back out there" again, and TBH I have thought about it. I know for me. I will do so with a different attitude than I did the first time.
It won't be to distract. It won't be to get a reaction out of W. It will simply be.
Just perhaps answer these same questions yourself.
Denver is #1 right now.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
