This morning my W and I talked about what triggered her to shut down when we were watching TV last night. Our discussion was going well, but then I decided to stray off topic which opened a big can of worms that led to a new discussion about unrelated issues. This led to another heated exchange where I proceeded to take three steps backward, after gaining a bit of forward momentum.
This may seem like a stupid request, but I’m looking for advice on how best to stay on topic when discussing issues with a spouse who is really hurt.
I’d also like your advice on what to say when you’ve hurt someone repeatedly…….besides sorry. I’ve said sorry so much, it has no meaning.
I guess actions speak louder than words…….which is what you’ve told me in the past.
