I think one of the things I'm struggling with right now that I don't get is how not to take care of everyone else and then get angry.
I mean, I don't, generally - but I'm really not liking my own family right now (my mom, sister, dad) it's like they're all very needy and demand from me and when I have my own crises, it just gets all wonky -
Same with BF - he gets away with saying upsetting stuff to me, etc. etc. and I just do what?
Do I just say "that's not okay with me?" How do you do this work but also not let people treat you like crap?