I have been following your story since January and I have had so many similar things happen to me this past month, even the same words from my H about being scared, etc. Only difference is we still have a physical R. I kept reading your above post in hopes that it would be a positive outcome that you have worked so hard for. I was also hoping that something in it would help click for me too. You do have a positive outcome though. You have moved forward and accepted what is. I hope to be a fortunate as you and come to that acceptance stage. It seems as if you are embarking on a new future with so much knowledge that your next R with another W will benefit from.
Best of luck--
I wish that I were in the acceptance stage...
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
