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But now I also need to work on boundaries without un-doing the DBing that I have done. I don't think it will be healthy to be gone 3 out of 4 weekends. I feel like there is some cake eating there. I'm at a loss though.


Problem there. ^^^

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I kept my response short and upbeat "yep the calendar is clear, I am not traveling for work and have a great time" He absolutely noticed the difference.


Can you see the problem?

I can, betting money he'll see one, or have one.



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