I was not offended. I think I need to move because it would be the best thing for me and the only way I could afford to live and still take care of my child. I am not worried about the relationship with the W. That ship has sailed. I don't want a relationship with the person she is now and I don't know if she'll ever change so I am focusing on me and my child. When i move out I can totally detatch and go dark. It seems to be a little effective so far. As for my W's access to my child I have rethought the situation and will let her have full access if she wants it, as long as child is safe and she does not interfere with the plans for my life. If she decides after some time that she does not want to go 50/50 with taking care of child, then i will have to be compensated in order to afford to take care of her. As for the A happening with child in the house, i can't control that but if i find out about it and have proof, I can use that in court if i am having to fight for custody (which would take W taking me to court or her royally messing up with child's welfare). It just feels like I am letting W get away without taking any responsibility for her actions. Not wanting revenge, just want some accountability.
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12
