Hey good to hear from you. Was thinking about you the other day!
I slipped down to catch up on you and Ce La Vie.
Things are great for me!!! Hard to believe where I was 2 years ago.....
Life goes on post divorce and it is pretty good, I have been dating the same woman since last December and it is going well, in fact just booked a getaway to Cancun with her just the other day!!
No wedding bells on the horizon or anything like that but it is definitely a serious, committed relationship. I will say that the second time around is much different.......I see my role in the relationship so much clearer now as oposed to when I met my XW.
I have little to no interaction with my XW and if we do it is mostly via email and text. My daughter does not speak to her nor does she even see her and I don't see that my XW is making any attempts to reach out to her daughter. My son still goes to see his mom but as he gets older I can tell it does not interest him as much.
I don't know where my XW is on her journey and I just don't care anymore, if you read a couple of posts up you can see that she still harbors some anger, however most of the time she is pleasant and polite towards me when on the rare occassion that we do talk.
I did take note of something my XW said a couple of months ago when I was making arrangements to get the rest of her stuff out of my house. My XW needed to come over to the house to make a decision on some stuff and my GF was in town (GF lives 1.5 hours away), My XW said that she preferred to come over to the house when my GF was not going to be there and i simply said okay.
Thinking back on it I remembered back when I was on the rollercoaster and my XW was out on the dating scene and we had an argument.......She said at that time that I she wished that I would just "meet someone else", she would "be happy" for me and that I deserved it!!!
I guess that now that it has happened it is not so "happy" for her......hmmmmm......I guess it is true......believe nothing they say!!!!
Hope things are going well for you too.
How are your kids doing?
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
