I will prove her wrong about me. But I understand what you are saying, that I have to make the changes because it is what I want to become, not because I want to prove something. That is the kind of change that will last, W will not believe it will last until she sees it last. That is where the "marathon" comes in.
BRAVO! Pat yourself on the back, get yourself a drink from the top shelf, but realize what you just wrote there...is pure gold.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK