Sad_but_happy, thank you!!! This is probably the most inspiring things I've read in this forum. Thank you!

We are the directors of our own happiness. When we start depositing that responsibility in other people or things, that's when problems start to arise. Because we can't 100% control people, or money, or houses, or cars or whatever. And if we deposit our happiness on them, it means we can't 100% control our happiness.

Thank you!


Me: 36
Wife: 33
Together: 09/2007
Married: 03/2010
I love you but...: 06/2011
Separated: 06/2011
Rebuilding: 11/2011