Dreams/Nightmare...are just dreams and nightmares. Try NOT to let them affect or direct you in a course of action...like calling to find out if the OM is beating her.
Usually won't end well for you.
Mgm,
I do not know the dynamic between you and your wife, but you seem to be really good friends...in fact it seems like even if you both do get a divorce she is going to be extremely friendly with you.
You also seem to be an 'Acts of Service' type of Love Language.
You are seemingly an extremely nice guy...extremely.
I'm not sure I can convey this properly, without offending, it is not the intent.
Do you get mad, or are you the peace at any cost type?
I'm not used to seeing guys, so able to be pleasant in the face of what you are going through, normally its like pulling teeth...which sounds strange because your doing it so well...I wonder if that is part of the problem...catering to her too much.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
