Hi again,

I've been thinking more about what happened, and I really shouldn't have any hope. First, because the safest approach to protect myself is to assume the worst. And the worst is that my wife really needed my help and doesn't have anything in mind. Second, because all other indications that she gives me is that she really wants to go ahead with the split.

She did mention in the beginning of the conversation that she felt uncomfortable by asking my help, she felt like she was using me. I said that there wasn't any problem, that I don't mind. And I don't.

So, I will continue with my DB'ing, I'll continue moving my life forward without her. Do you guys have any other advices?

Thank you!


Me: 36
Wife: 33
Together: 09/2007
Married: 03/2010
I love you but...: 06/2011
Separated: 06/2011
Rebuilding: 11/2011