Waiting to PIECE. No PEACE when waiting

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"i really hesitated to post that as it makes me sound like a degenerate and i felt like i was. I need therapy in that dept."

I believe "healthy human being" would be more appropriate. Any man on this board who says he does not crave intimacy and physical contact with his WAS is a liar.

Ninelives, I've been reading your sitch for a while and my jaw was dropping as I read the horror story that was the relationship between your W and the pig OM. And the sitch with your parents just adds more crap to the crap pile.

I completely understand your desire to hold and protect your W, but I think you are making the road back home a little too smooth. Yes, your W has gone through hell, but so have you and your family. Gnosis makes a good point in saying she needs to work her way back in and not get a free pass.

Regardless of the issues our WAS's are dealing with, we should not lose sight of our self-esteem and self-respect.